Sometimes to go forward you have to first backup

I wrote some apologies today. For one of them I didn't particular want to since I wrote them from the "willing to be responsible for everything" point of view. This point of view often lack of the distinctions necessary to completely describe the problems, issues or situations. But an apology isn't about describing, it's about letting go problems, issues and situations that don't work and asking someone else to let go too. I feel uneasy about apologies without distinctions because it's too easy to have to "take the blame" rather than "taking the responsibility". These days not many people make any distinctions.